Posts Tagged "Dan Savage"

Monogamish Ethics

Posted by on Mar 13, 2012 in Blog, Monogamish, Non-monogamy, Savage Love | 0 comments

My wife and I have been married eighteen years, basically since high school. We opened up our marriage two years ago. She quickly attracted an avalanche of attention online, and has had a couple of lovers. It has done her—and us—good. But my own experience has been the opposite of hers: tepid interest online; endless correspondence with sort-of interested parties; a few disastrous dates.

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Savage Says: Another Gold-Star Pedophile

Posted by on Mar 12, 2012 in Blog, Savage Love | 2 comments

This week's Savage Love really made me stop and consider what it would be like to have an off-limits sexual desire / fetish / kink.I can't imagine having to spend my entire life resisting my sexual interests and desires -- which, as Dan points out -- we don't choose.

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Have we learned NOTHING?

Posted by on Feb 24, 2012 in Blog, LGBT | 0 comments

So, it's Friday evening and I am sitting on my couch, trying to write a witty and entertaining blog post. Unfortunately, it's just not flowing, so instead I am going to share a comic I saw on Facebook today. This comic, to me, sums up the current and pathetic state of affairs in the US and, to a lesser extent, Canada as well.

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FruitTaster: Designer Relationships

Posted by on Jan 7, 2012 in Blog, Marriage, Monogamish, Non-monogamy | 0 comments

Thank you, FruitTaster, for leaving the following comment on my most recent blog post: Monogamish Week! This comment is so insightful and interesting that I wanted to share it with you. And once you've read this comment, make sure you read more of FruitTaster's blog; it makes for excellent reading!

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Monogamish Week!

Posted by on Jan 7, 2012 in Blog, Marriage, Monogamish, Non-monogamy | 1 comment

We humans are typically creatures of habit; we go along with what we're used to, stick to what feels comfortable, and generally expect others to do the same. Yet relationships themselves are such dynamic, ever-evolving entities. Heck, we humans are ever-evolving ... we find new interests and hobbies, make new friends, develop new habits ... you get the picture.

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